Here are the notes for episode #55x of Naked Humanity.

In last week’s question, a listener claimed that we were polar opposites. I think this was on the basis of what he perceived my views to be about some things. I wanted to take this opportunity to talk about something really important to me: not identifying WHO you are with WHAT you believe. Instead, focus on HOW you believe. When you do this, you break out of the philosophical box and open yourself up to more growth, learning, and connection than anyone following the traditional model.

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