Here are the notes for episode #42x of Naked Humanity.

For this episode a listener writes in and asks, how do I figure out what to do with my life? Why is it so hard to feel purposeful? Stefani reflects on the current cultural moment, explains why so many people struggle with finding a “purpose” these days, and provides three ways to respond to the problem depending on your own personality type and experience of meaning.

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