Here are the notes for episode #42 of Naked Humanity.

Is there a way to advertise to people that is ethical, or are we basically doomed to forever con one another into buying our services? On today’s podcast, Stefani chats with drag king and PhD student Kaila Tova about the ways in which marketing influences our decisions and the shape of our worlds. Kaila is the host of the podcast “Your Body, Your Brand,” which explores the ways in which people–often women–end up selling health and fitness online. Kaila knows ALL about this after battling eating disorders, becoming a nutrition coach, and watching how the ways in which people brand themselves shapes their messages, their communities, and their  lives. 

Check out the podcast “Your Body, Your Brand” by searching it on any podcasting platform, going to or following  @bodybrandpod on Instagram or Twitter.

Also check out the podcast on the attention economy Kaila recommends, “Your Undivided Attention.”

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