Here’s the notes for episode #12x of The Meaning of Everything show.

A testament to the potential for New Year’s Resolutions to do actual good, today Stefani tells the story of the year she resolved to be celibate. Tune in and learn about her history of traumatic relationships with men and how forswearing romance transformed her into a self-sufficient and happy human.

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Stefani’s sex life *shrug emoji*

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